Sunday, November 17, 2024
Friday, November 15, 2024
Thursday, November 14, 2024
Debt? Thank You, Dad!
Debts: 50 years ago?
When I was a middle-schooler, my father, who seemed to think fantasy and sword&sorcery and anything not sports were silly, picked up three tickets for the local high school's production of The Hobbit. He didn't tell me it was a musical, which I would have recoiled from. Instead, it was all a surprise as he, my mother, and I waited for the play to begin. I had a fine time, and I treasure the memory. More than anything, I reflect on how my dad noticed something I loved, countered his bias against the subject matter, countered my bias against a musical, and was willing to be there too.
He came to most of my swim meets as well, bless him. The one parent cheering for our high school team. My friends appreciated that too. We lost more than we won.
I wasn't the star athlete my father wanted--that was G my middle brother and H my oldest brother--but he found ways to connect that I did not appreciate in the hurly burly of my teenage years. I am sorry for my blindness now.
Tuesday, November 12, 2024
Charybdis
Eddy, South of Van Damme
Mendocino, 2015 or 2017.
My best capture of a whirlpool in motion.
I should be more patient.
Thursday, November 7, 2024
Tuesday, November 5, 2024
Sunday, November 3, 2024
Thursday, October 31, 2024
Thursday, October 24, 2024
Sunday, October 20, 2024
Thursday, October 17, 2024
The Best Writing?
Truck ruminations:
Good writing? I can define or describe that. That's my day job. The best writing? That is trickier.
The best writing carries me forward or backward, flood-like, whatever my inclinations. The best writing surprises me in small or gigantic ways, but always in service to the story, whatever that means. Awakening curiosity or empathy, perhaps forcing such: well, that's the spine, the spoor, the Cain's mark of the very best writing.
Long commute, you know?
Saturday, October 12, 2024
Thursday, October 10, 2024
Thursday, October 3, 2024
Thursday, September 26, 2024
Saturday, September 21, 2024
Remembering Captain
Captain, giving me what-for for having been out in the backyard. He preferred me inside the house.
One year ago yesterday.
Miss that boy.
Thursday, September 19, 2024
Happy Birthday, Dad
My father would have been 91 yesterday.
A good memory here.
Miserable, wet day charter-foshing on Monterey Bay, but good for all that.